OWNING YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE WHEN YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED DEEP HURT, BETRAYAL, ABANDONMENT & PAIN IS A HARD PILL TO SWALLOW 💊
THE REALITY IS THAT LIFE IS NOT HAPPENING TO US, IT IS RESPONDING TO US.
AS HUMAN BEINGS WE ARE AN ENERGY FIELD MADE OF THE FREQUENCIES HELD BY ATOMS HELD WITHIN CELLS THAT ARE BEING CONDUCTED THROUGH WATER (REMEMBER WE ARE ROUGHLY 70% WATER). MORE IMPORTANTLY, OUR MIND & OUR HEART CARRY THEIR OWN MAGNETIC FIELDS, WITH THE FIELD AROUND OUR HEART BEING 5000 x THAT OF THE ELECTROMAGNETIC FIELD AROUND YOUR BRAIN. MAKING IT A TRULY POWERFUL SOURCE OF ENERGY & CREATION IN YOUR LIFE 🤯
THROUGHOUT LIFE WE HAVE EXPERIENCES THAT ARE DESIGNED FOR GROWTH, BECAUSE PUT SIMPLY, WE AS HUMAN BEINGS ARE PROGRAMMED FOR EVOLUTION. 🐒 👶 👦 👨
THESE EXPERIENCES ALSO ALTER OUR ENERGY FIELD. THINK TRAUMA, PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, DEATH & CHANGE (ANYTHING THAT CAUSED SHOCK TO THE NERVOUS SYSTEM CAN TRAUMATISE YOU, EVEN CHRONIC STRESS 😩).
WE ATTACH EMOTIONS TO THESE EXPERIENCES SUCH AS ANGER, GRIEF, SHAME, GUILT, FEAR etc....🥺 & WITHOUT KNOWING HOW TO PROCESS THE EMOTIONS FOR GROWTH (BECAUSE NO-ONE TAUGHT US HOW!) OUR NERVOUS SYSTEM GOES INTO OVERDRIVE & STORES THE EMOTIONS, LEAVING US FEELING LIKE WE ARE CARRYING A 100KG BAG OF WEIGHTS ON OUR SHOULDERS. 🤯
AS WE CARRY THIS LOAD WE START TO ATTRACT MORE EXPERIENCES THAT PERFECTLY MATCH THE EXACT FREQUENCIES OF THE EMOTIONS & PAIN WE STORE. WHICH ONLY CREATES MORE PAIN, WOUNDING & TRAUMA. 😭 HELLO PAIN CYCLE!
FOR EXAMPLE, YOU EXPERIENCE THE DEATH OF A LOVED ONE. YOU ARE THEN FACED WITH OVERWHELMING GRIEF. UNCERTAINTY, FEAR & AN UNDERLYING EXPERIENCE OF ABANDONMENT TAKE HOLD. LEAVING YOU FEELING LIKE THERE'S A 40 TONNE TRUCK PRESSED UP AGAINST YOUR CHEST WITH YOUR BACK AGAINST A WALL. IT TAKES YEARS TO FULLY PROCESS GRIEF BECAUSE IT IS EQUAL TO THE JOY & THE LOVE THAT YOU EXPERIENCED BECAUSE WE LIVE IN A DUAL REALITY.
SO YOUR ENERGETIC FREQUENCY NOW CARRIES WITH IT THE ENERGY OF LOSS, WHICH MEANS UNTIL YOU HEAL THE EMOTIONAL WOUND, YOU WILL SEEK OUT ANYTHING THAT RESEMBLES THE WARMTH OF A CUDDLE ON A COLD NIGHT. SADLY, YOU SEEK OUT SOMETHING, SOMEONE OR SOMETHING TO FILL THE VOID THAT IS THE CRATER THAT NOW EXISTS IN PLACE OF YOUR HEART. ENTER SOMEONE ELSE WITH ABANDONMENT WOUNDS AND PUPPY DOG EYES. PERHAPS THEIR FAMILY MEMBER LEFT WHEN THEY WERE A CHILD LEAVING THEM CRYING INTO THEIR PILLOW & SEEKING COMFORT FROM THE FAMILY PET, OR PERHAPS THEY TOO HAVE EXPERIENCED THE UNFORTUNATE DEATH OF A LOVED ONE.
THIS PERSON THEN MIRRORS BACK TO YOU EVERY WOUND THAT GOES UNHEALED WITHIN YOURSELF UNTIL YOU LEARN TO FACE UP & HEAL THE CORE WOUND. SO WHETHER IT IS LOSS, REJECTION, EMOTIONAL PAIN, TRAUMA, BETRAYAL ETC....WHATEVER YOU HOLD, YOU WILL ATTRACT MORE OF. PAINFUL, I KNOW.
SOME RELATIONSHIPS COME INTO OUR LIFE TO TRIGGER PAIN & REPEAT PATTERNS, SOME COME IN TO TRIGGER PAIN TO HEAL THE PROGRAM. EITHER WAY IT WILL CAP YOU IN LIFE, IN BUSINESS, IN LOVE, IN HEALTH LEAVING YOU BANGING YOUR HEAD AGAINST THE WALL AS YOU STRUGGLE & SUFFER UNTIL YOU ARE WILLING TO FACE UP TO & REWRITE YOUR PATTERNS ONCE & FOR ALL 💪🏻
CONTRARY TO WHAT THE DEVIL ON YOUR SHOULDER TELLS YOU, IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE SCARY TO HEAL & TRANSCEND THE OLD WOUNDS THAT KEEP YOU IN PAIN. WITH THE RIGHT HELP, THE RIGHT TOOLS & THE RIGHT SUPPORT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF CLAIMING A LIFE OF HEALTH, WEALTH & ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING YOU DESIRE... IT STARTS WITH YOU BOSS.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
ELLE DIXON IS A RESILIENCE & PERFORMANCE COACH, QUANTUM HEALER & TRANSFORMATION EXPERT THAT WORKS WITH BUSY PROFESSIONALS TO ACHIEVE DEPTHS OF GREATNESS THEY KNOW ARE THERE BUT CAN'T QUITE REACH. YOU CAN BOOK A FREE CLARITY CALL TO WORK THROUGH YOUR CHALLENGES & UNLOCK YOUR NEXT LEVEL OF SOULFUL & SUSTAINABLE SUCCESS BY FILLING OUT THE CONTACT FORM AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE BELOW
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